Sorry if you expected “Thai girlfriend guides” in the context of a “dating Thai girls guide”. This is what you might call a “Thai holiday girlfriends guide”, a guide for foreign men seeking Thai girls as a female travel companion/guide (Thai girlfriend/travel companion) or for a Thai girlfriend experience (GFE) while on holiday in Thailand.
There’s only one certain way to get a girlfriend travel companion/guide or Thai girlfriend experience while vacationing in Thailand, but 2 ways to make it happen, including hooking up with Thai girls online.
What are the benefits of a Thai girlfriend/travel companion or girlfriend experience?
First of all, whether it’s a girlfriend-cum-travel companion or a Thai girlfriend experience, the relationship is more like a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, where everything – including sex, is enjoyed at a more intimate level than your average “one-night stand” type sexual hook up.
One obvious benefit of a Thai girlfriend/travel companion is you get a girlfriend experience and a native speaking travel guide and translator all rolled into one.
The benefits of hooking with a Thai girl for a girlfriend experience are many, but If you’re not visiting Thailand purely to indulge in the nightlife, to party, girls, and sex, hooking up with a Thai girl for a girlfriend experience is a pretty cool way to hang-out and enjoy some female company.
How to get a Thai girlfriend experience or female travel companion/guide in Thailand?
I’m not saying you can’t find like-minded “normal”, what you might call “good Thai girls” for short term “holiday romance” kind of casual relationship. Only, it’s more difficult, especially if you’re on vacation – looking for a girlfriend today.
Sure, there are lots of Thai girls into hooking-up with foreign men for casual sex, but a girl with a job and other commitments is hardly likely to have the time or the inclination to take off with you for days or weeks at a time.
Rent a Girlfriend
The easiest, most certain way to hook-up with a Thai girl for a girlfriend experience, as a travel companion/guide, or any kind of casual “no strings attached relationship” is to hire a Thai bar-girl or freelancer. It’s often termed “rent a girlfriend” – “rent a wife”.
For many guys who visit places like Pattaya, Bangkok, and Phuket for the nightlife, girls, and sex, a Thai girlfriend experience happens by chance. One night they might pick up a girl they hit it off with, so they ask her to stick around for a few days and soak up the attention.
For others, having a Thai girlfriend experience or girlfriend-cum-travel companion happens more by design.
Let’s say a guy wants a girlfriend-cum-travel companion/guide to take off to the islands or someplace else with him. The first thing he does when he arrives in Thailand is to visit a popular nightlife destination like Pattaya, Bangkok or Phuket, and hire a Thai bar-girl as a Thai girlfriend-cum-travel companion for the duration of his vacation in Thailand.
Hiring a bar-girl for a night, a few days, a week, a month is all pretty much the same. You visit girly bars – like beer-bars and go-go clubs, sooner or later you’re going to meet a girl who thinks (or at least says) you’re a sexy man, and you quite fancy her too. So, you work out a deal with her, pay the bar fine, and away you go.
Dropping hints:
The best approach is to get friendly first, chat, play a bar game, maybe a game of pool, and just mention that you intend to head off to the islands or wherever for a few days, or that you’re looking for a cute Thai girl, just like her, to hang out for a few days.
If she’s interested you’ll hear “I want to go with you” or a similar remark.
What does it cost to hire a Thai bar girl for a girlfriend experience?
It depends on what type of bar you hire the girl from. For example, a girl from a typical beer bar in Pattaya would most likely ask for around 2000 baht per day, and the bar fine at beer bars is usually a few hundred baht, it varies from bar to bar. A good-looking go-go dancer will, in most cases ask for a lot more than a girl from a beer bar, and the bar fine will exceed 1000 baht per day.
More about picking up Thai bar girls
Get Thai girlfriends on the cheap:
Some Thai bar-girls – for example, the cutest girls working in popular short-time bars in places like Soi 6 in Pattaya – can earn big money, a few thousand baht in a single day. They’re addicted to it, and they’re not likely to join you for less than what they earn every day.
On the other hand, some girls working in beer bars are happy to get a break from the bar, and the offer of guaranteed money, a nice hotel room, and free food for the next few days or even weeks is often too good to refuse. So, especially if she likes you, she might give you a considerable discount.
Get a Thai girlfriend experience or travel companion online
If you’re wondering – is it possible to get a Thai girlfriend experience/travel companion online, it’s as sure as eggs is eggs. I would have said it’s sure as girls is girls, but that’s not always the case in Thailand, lol.
The big advantage of hooking up online is it’s a lot cheaper than hiring a girl from a bar, there are no bar fines to pay, no drinks to buy.
I’m not referring to “call girl or Thai escort dating sites” or niche vacation dating, holiday companion, or travel buddy sites, you only need to use “ordinary” dating apps and websites.
The tried and trusted place to get a girlfriend experience/travel companion is ThaiFriendly. Tinder is also popular, and to a lesser extent sites and apps like WeChat and Badoo.
The thing about ThaiFriendly is, it’s where “girls for hire” – bar girls and freelancers like to hang out. When searching for girls in places like Bangkok, Phuket, and especially Pattaya, you can expect to find as many freelancers as you will normal non-freelance girls.
Some girls make it perfectly obvious they are freelance, but they are only the tip of the iceberg. The majority of freelance girls have quite blank profiles, with their age preferences set to ANY.
How you approach it is up to you, but getting to the point indirectly by asking “what are you looking for?” or more directly by politely asking “are you freelance?” will save you a lot of useless chit-chats, and time.
Don’t expect every “available” girl to accept your offer, some freelancers are only interested in “right now”. You call them, they come, they go, on to the next.
Please, don’t get scammed
The golden rule is – never pay in advance, no matter how sick her dad’s buffalo is, or how badly her mother’s roof is leaking, don’t give cash advances, play safe and pay 1 day at a time.
Here’s what happened to my friend. He found what he thought was a nice girl to join him for a week in Pattaya. For 2 weeks before he arrived he spoke to her most nights and built up a nice rapport with her.
All good, he thought, but he made his one mistake on the first day. She asked him for money upfront, he gave it to her. You probably guessed, she made an excuse she had to go somewhere, she would be back shortly, and he never saw her again. He quickly found another companion on ThaiFriendly, but that little episode was expensive and avoidable.
Thanks for reading, stay safe and enjoy your trip.