If you expected “Thai girlfriend guides” in the context of a “dating Thai girls” guide, sorry. This is a “Thailand holiday girlfriends” guide for men who want to hook up with single Thai women, and get female travel/holiday companions and Thai girlfriend experience (GFE) while on vacation in Thailand.
To get Thai girlfriend/travel companions online, right now, scroll down the page.
What are the benefits of having a female travel/holiday companion or girlfriend experience?
Regarding the sexual relationship, a girlfriend-cum-travel companion or a Thai girlfriend experience is more like a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, but it’s a casual “no strings attached” relationship. When it’s over you say your goodbyes, until the next time, maybe.
Thai girlfriend-cum-travel companion:
The benefit of having a Thai girlfriend/travel companion is you get a girlfriend experience, and a native speaking travel guide to translate and negotiate, and deal with other issues a single male traveler in Thailand might have.
Someone to hang out with:
Most single guys holiday in Thailand for sex, for some that means nightlife, to party, to have sex with Thai bar girls, as many as their stamina and budget allow. Some guys prefer not to indulge in the nightlife, and holiday in Thailand, not just for sex, but to enjoy some female company and friendship.
How to get a Thai girlfriend experience or female travel companion/guide in Thailand?
I’m not saying you can’t find like-minded “normal”, what you might call “good Thai girls” for short term “holiday romance” kind of casual relationships, just that it’s more difficult.
Sure, there are many Thai girls into hooking-up with foreign men for casual sex, but a girl with a job and other commitments is hardly likely to have the time or the inclination to take off with you for days or weeks at a time.
Rent a Girlfriend
The easiest way to hook-up with a Thai girl for a girlfriend experience, as a travel companion/guide, or any kind of casual “no strings attached relationship” is to hire a Thai bar-girl or freelancer. It’s often termed “rent a girlfriend” – “rent a wife”.
For many guys who holiday in places like Pattaya, Bangkok, and Phuket for the nightlife, girls, and sex, a Thai girlfriend experience happens by chance. They pick up a girl from a bar and hit it off with her, so ask her to stick around.
For others, having a Thai girlfriend experience or girlfriend-cum-travel companion happens more by design.
Let’s say a guy wants a girlfriend-cum-travel companion/guide to take off to the islands or someplace else with him. The first thing he does when he arrives in Thailand is to visit a popular nightlife destination like Pattaya, Bangkok or Phuket, and hire a Thai bar-girl as a Thai girlfriend-cum-travel companion for the duration of his vacation in Thailand.
Hiring a bar-girl for a night, a few days, a week, a month is all much the same. You visit girly bars – like beer-bars and agogo clubs until you meet a girl who thinks (or at least says) you’re a sexy man, and you quite fancy her too. So, you work out a deal with her, pay the bar fine, and away you go.
Dropping hints:
It’s best to get friendly first, chat, play a bar game, maybe a game of pool, and just mention that you intend to head off to the islands or wherever, or that you’re looking for a cute Thai girl, just like her, to hang out for a few days.
If she’s interested you’ll hear “I want to go with you” or a similar remark.
What does it cost to hire a Thai girlfriend/travel companion?
It depends on what type of bar you hire the girl from. For example, a girl from a typical beer bar in Pattaya would most likely ask for around 2000 baht per day, and the bar fine at beer bars is usually a few hundred baht, it varies from bar to bar. A good-looking go-go dancer will, in most cases ask for a lot more than a girl from a beer bar, and the bar fine will exceed 1000 baht per day.
If she likes you, and the idea of guaranteed money for the next few days, she might give you a discount.
More about picking up Thai bar girls
Get a Thai girlfriend experience or travel companion online
The best way to get a Thai girlfriend experience or travel companion free, and fast, as in right now, is to join ThaiFriendly. It’s free to join, free to use. There’s a premium membership if you need to speed things up, but you’re unlikely to need it. It takes just 20 to 30 minutes or less to get a girlfriend/travel companion using the free message service.
ALL kinds of girls:
ThaiFriendly looks ordinary, like any other serious dating site, but what makes it such a great place to get a Thai GFE or travel companion is there are ALL kinds of girls, looking for ALL kinds of relationship. In popular places like Bangkok, Phuket, and especially Pattaya, that includes girls for hire (freelancers), for a Thai girlfriend experience, or whatever.
Size matters:
With over 2 million members, it’s the biggest dating site in Thailand, and that means in the popular nightlife destinations like Pattaya there’s usually 250+ girls online, at any time, and another 2000+ within the last 24 hours.
It’s dead simple:
Thankfully, there’s not a gazillion pointless bells and whistles, and like a honey badger, ThaiFriendly doesn’t give a $hit about matchmaking. It’s dead simple, you search, browse, send interest to get attention, ask girls what they’re all about, and save the ones you like to the favorites list.
ThaiFriendly Tips
Sign up, choose a user-name, fill-out your profile.
By the way, you can turn de-activate and re-activate your account any you please time, your profile will not appear anywhere, and you will not receive messages.
A profile photo is optional but recommended. Without one – don’t expect any girls to approach you directly, and most girls will not respond to your interest or messages.
Choose your location. If you are in town, in Pattaya for example, selecting Pattaya as your location will attract much more interest, especially from Thai women into casual dating.
Bar girls and freelancers mainly have quite blank profiles, with their age preferences set to “ANY” but there are exceptions. Some include their profession in their profile info, sometimes accompanied by “seductive” photos and other tell-tale signals like Line ID or messages which make it plainly obvious what they are there for.
How you approach it is up to you, but getting to the point indirectly by asking “what are you looking for?” or more directly by asking “are you freelance?” will save you a lot useless chit-chat, and time.
Once you find a girl, assuming she is a freelancer or bar girl, negotiate a price.
Don’t expect every “available” girl to accept your offer, some freelancers are only interested in “right now”. You call them, they come, they go, on to the next.
Layboys: This is Thailand lol, on ThaiFriendly you can choose to browse the gender of your choice, women, men, or ladyboys.
Don’t get scammed
The golden rule is – never pay in advance, no matter how sick her dad’s buffalo is, or how badly her mother’s roof is leaking, don’t give cash advances, play safe and pay 1 day at a time.
Here’s what happened to my friend. He found what he thought was a nice girl to join him for a week in Pattaya. For 2 weeks before he arrived he spoke to her most nights and built up a nice rapport with her.
All good, he thought, but he made his one mistake on the first day. She asked him for money upfront, he gave it to her. You probably guessed, she made an excuse she had to go somewhere, she would be back shortly, and he never saw her again. He quickly found another companion on ThaiFriendly, but that little episode was expensive and avoidable.
Thanks for reading, stay safe and enjoy your trip.