If you expected “Thai girlfriend guides” in the context of a “dating Thai girls” guide, sorry, this is a “casual Thai girlfriends guide” for single men seeking a Thai girlfriend cum travel companion/guide or Thai girlfriend experience while on vacation in Thailand.
Getting a casual “no strings attached” Thai girlfriend to hang out with, or as a girlfriend cum travel companion/guide to explore Thailand with is not difficult.
Most importantly, it’s something you can do yourself, either beforehand, or once you arrive in Thailand, no need to spend your hard-earned cash on so-called “Thailand singles sex holidays” inclusive of room and pre-arranged “sexy Thai hostess”.
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How to get a Thai girlfriend experience or girlfriend travel companion/guide in Thailand?
The easiest, and only practical way to hook-up with a Thai girl for a girlfriend experience, as a travel companion/guide, or any kind of casual “no strings attached relationship” while on vacation in Thailand is to hire a Thai bar-girl or freelancer. It’s often termed “rent a girlfriend” or “rent a wife”.
Hiring a Thai bar girl is a ready-made girlfriend experience:
When you pay to take a bar girl from a bar in Thailand, the experience is, well, it’s quite famously like having a girlfriend for the night – rather than a cold business-like transaction. You might go for drinks, catch a movie, go nightclubbing, and finally back to your hotel to get a little more intimate.
Best places to find a Thai GFE or girlfriend cum travel companion in Thailand
You can hire Thai bar girls and freelancers online (see below), or at bars and go-go clubs in Thailand’s popular nightlife spots such as Pattaya, Bangkok, and Phuket.
It’s best to get friendly first – break the ice, chat, play a bar game, maybe a game of pool, and just mention that you intend to head off to the islands or wherever, or that you’re looking for a cute Thai girl, just like her, to hang out with for a few days.
Because you can see inside without entering, and quickly see how many girls are working, how good looking they are, is there a pool table, etc, beer bars – like this one on Soi Diana in Pattaya (photo below), are a good place to start your search. On the other hand, at go-go bars – you need to enter and buy a drink before you can check out what’s going on.
For many guys who holiday in places like Pattaya, Bangkok and Phuket for the nightlife and sex, and pick up bar girls every day or as required, a Thai girlfriend experience happens by chance when they pick up a girl they hit it off with and ask her to stick around.
How much does a Thai girlfriend experience or girlfriend/travel companion cost?
It depends on what type of bar you hire the girl from. For example, a girl from a typical beer bar in Pattaya would most likely ask for around 2000 baht per day, and the bar fine at beer bars is usually a few hundred baht, it varies from bar to bar. A good-looking go-go dancer will, in most cases ask for a lot more than a girl from a beer bar, and the bar fine will exceed 1000 baht per day.
If she likes you, and the idea of guaranteed money for the next few days, she might give you a discount.
Hiring a Thai girlfriend/travel companion online will cost whatever daily rate you can negotiate with the girl. If she also works in a bar she will ask you to pay the bar fine also.
Get a Thai girlfriend experience or travel companion on the must-have dating site/app for single men in Thailand
It takes just a few minutes to get a Thai girlfriend experience or female travel companion on ThaiFriendly. That’s because more and more Thai bar girls are choosing to work freelance online, and the place they prefer to hang out is ThaiFriendly – an ordinary dating site with a rather naughty side to it.
Online – you can hook-up with Thai girls and get a girlfriend experience (GFE) or female travel companions 24/7, every day of the year. There’s no need to pay bar fines, and if you want to – you can build a list of contacts and potential girlfriends/travel companions before you arrive in Thailand.
Sign up, choose a user-name, fill-out your profile.
A profile photo is optional but recommended. Without one – don’t expect any girls to approach you directly, and most girls will not respond to your interest or messages.
Choose your location. If you are in town, in Pattaya for example, selecting Pattaya as your location will attract much more interest, especially from Thai women into casual dating.
Bar girls and freelancers mainly have quite blank profiles, with their age preferences set to “ANY” but there are exceptions. Some include their profession in their profile info, sometimes accompanied by “seductive” photos and other tell-tale signals like Line ID or messages which make it obvious what they are there for.
How you approach it is up to you, but getting to the point indirectly by asking “what are you looking for?” or more directly by asking “are you freelance?” will save you a lot useless chit-chat, and time.
Once you find a girl, assuming she is a freelancer or bar girl, negotiate a price.
Don’t expect every “available” girl to accept your offer, some freelancers are only interested in “right now”. You call them, they come, they go, on to the next.
Layboys: This is Thailand lol, on ThaiFriendly you can choose to browse the gender of your choice, women, men, or ladyboys.
Don’t get scammed
The golden rule is – never pay in advance, no matter how sick her dad’s buffalo is, or how badly her mother’s roof is leaking, don’t give cash advances, play safe and pay 1 day at a time.
Here’s what happened to my friend. He found what he thought was a nice girl to join him for a week in Pattaya. For 2 weeks before he arrived he spoke to her most nights and built up a nice rapport with her.
All good, he thought, but he made his one mistake on the first day. She asked him for money upfront, he gave it to her. You probably guessed, she made an excuse she had to go somewhere, she would be back shortly, and he never saw her again. He quickly found another companion on ThaiFriendly, but that little episode was expensive and avoidable.
Thanks for reading, stay safe and enjoy your trip.