What it costs to hire Thai bar girls for sex in Pattaya depends on a few variable factors, such as how good looking she is, the type of bar you hire her from, the price of the bar fine, the cost and number of lady drinks you buy.
To find out more, and the price you might pay for having sex with Thai bar girls in Thailand, read on.
What are bar girls in Thailand?
The term “bar girls” refers to girls who are prostitutes, and work in girly bars – which are bars and other nightlife related venues such as agogo clubs and beer bars. They are employed to entertain customers, dance (go-go girls), to serve drinks, and offer sex services – if they wish.
Where to find bar girls in Pattaya?
Bar girls work at beer bars, short-time bars, fetish bars, as waitresses and dancers at agogo clubs, hostesses at gentleman’s clubs, and freelance online.
What Do Thai Bar Girls Do?
Answer: A bar girl’s primary role at a bar – whether it’s a beer bar, short-time bar, go-go bar, is to attract male customers to the bar, entertain them and encourage them to spend money in the bar. At some bars, girls offer “short-time sex activities” and even fantasy role-play services on the premises.
What’s it like with Thai bar girls?
Outside of the bar, the relationship with Thai bar girls is more of a boyfriend-girlfriend – lovers type relationship, unlike the more business-like – cold sex offered in places like Amsterdam.
Just sex, a girlfriend experience, or anything else:
Whether a guy comes to Pattaya only for short-time sex, or prefers to hire a bar girl for a day, a week, a month for a Thai girlfriend experience (rent a girlfriend), a Thai bar girl can be pretty much anything a man wants
Paying for bar girls in Pattaya – step by step
So you’ve just arrived in Pattaya, it’s time to see what it’s all about. The order of play, and pay, will go something like this:
1) You enter a bar, take a seat, order a drink.
2) A girl might come along, introduce herself, ask is she can sit down, or she might be introduced to you by the Mamasan, who asks if you would like some company.
What is a Mamasan? The Mamasan manages/oversees the girls. In many bars, the Mamasan is looked upon as a mother figure and a boss. In most instances the Mamasan used to work as a bar-girl herself, she might even be the owner of the bar.
3) Quite famously, most Thai bar-girls introductory lines are: what’s your name? where you come from? where you stay?, how long you stay in Thailand?, is this your first time Thailand?
Those questions are a little more than just idle chit-chat. She’s finding-out a few basic facts, like – are you rich, are you a tourist, are you still green, does she have time to get under your skin.
Before, during, or after the chit-chat, she will ask if you would like to buy her a drink – if you never offered already.
4) She’s really cute, you like her, she seems to like you too. You ask her to join you for the night, she says yes, you negotiate a fee for her time.
5) You pay the bar fine, pay your bill, and leave.
What is a lady drink? Any drinks you buy for Thai bar girls working in a bar, beer bar, go-go club, hostess bar or gentleman’s club is called a lady drink.
Price of Lady Drinks in Pattaya
Prices for lady drinks are between 80 and 150 baht in Pattaya beer bars but could be up to 3 times as much in Go-Go bars. Bar girls receive a commission for each drink bought for them, and many bars expect the girl to reach a daily or monthly quota of drinks sales.
TIP: If you don’t want a bar-girl sat with you, let her know without offending her. Tell her you are married – your wife will be arriving shortly – or even that you are gay. In the worst-case scenario just buy her 1 drink then make your excuses and leave.
Paying for Playing with Bar Girls
Games, including Connect 4, dice games and Jenga, are often used as ice-breakers, and to encourage you to stay a little longer and spend more money. In Pattaya, the bar girl’s game of choice is Connect 4, and they also love to play for money. Let me tell you playing Connect 4 with a bar girl (see photo below) is a sure, but fun way to lose money in Pattaya.
Pattaya Bar Girl Long Time Prices
What is long time? When you hire a bar girl for “long time” it typically means she will stay with you throughout the day and night, either until early morning or when she’s due to start her next shift at the bar.
Of course, her definition of “long time” might not be the same as yours. Example: you take a girl at mid-day, at 6 ‘O’ clock evening she declares “6 hours long time already” and heads back to the bar, and the prospect of another customer. So it’s best to be clear from the outset exactly what you expect.
Girls from beer bars are likely to ask for a minimum 2000 baht for long-time. Go-go dancers might as for 3000 to 5000 baht. There is no set price for bar girls in Pattaya, whether they are from a beer bar, a go-go club or gentleman’s club. It all depends what you both think she’s worth, how much she thinks she can get out of you, and your negotiating skills.
Negotiating the Price with Bar Girls in Pattaya
Some bar girls are upfront, they will immediately state their opening price. Others hedge their bets by replying “up to you”. If you offer an unsatisfactory price she will most likely reply with a look of disinterest, or ask you to try again.
Hiring Thai Bar Girls as Girlfriend Come Travel Companions and Thai Girlfriend Experiences
Most girls are happy to hang out for a few days or double up as a girlfriend come travel guide. You just pay her, and the bar as per usual.
Pattaya Bar Girl Short Time Prices
Prices for short-time sex in Pattaya vary from bar to bar. On Soi 6 – Pattaya’s most famous short-time bar street – a “short-time” might cost 1,500 to 2000 baht, including the bar fine and room rental. Short-time at go-go bars is at least double the price.
Bar Fine Prices in Pattaya
What is a bar fine? Before you can take a Thai bar girl or hostess from a bar, you must pay a bar fine. The bar-fine is paid to the bar as compensation for the temporary loss of one of the bar staff.
So if you take a girl from a bar for long-time, you pay the bar-fine for every day that she stays in your company and does not return to work in the bar.
Bar-fines at beer bar complexes and shop-house style bars are generally around 300 to 600 baht. Bar fines at go-go clubs in Pattaya vary from club to club. You would be lucky to find one with a bar fine of less than 1000 baht, and 1,500 baht is typical for most, but some reduce the rate after midnight.
Price of Freelance Girls in Pattaya
The price of a freelance girls in Pattaya should be comparable to the amount you would pay a bar girl, minus the bar fine. There’s a lot of girls working freelance in Pattaya, either part-time or full time. Not only bar girls or ex bar girls, but girls with ordinary jobs in stores, hotels, etc.
Freelance girls hang out online, and in popular nightclubs and discos such as Insomnia and Marine Disco on Walking Street.
Paying to Take a Bar Girl to Your Hotel Room in Pattaya
Most hotels in Pattaya are guest (joiner) friendly, meaning so long as you are the only occupant, and you booked the room for 2 occupants, they allow you to take bar-girls back to your room free of charge. If your hotel is not guest friendly – they will charge a joining fee, which could be as much as 1,500 baht, every time you take a guest/girl back to your room.
Here’s more information about Pattaya hotel joiner policies.
Never Pay Bar Girls in Advance
Some bar girls will ask for money upfront. They may offer you a convincing reason to hand over your money, such as they need to pay back a loan to a friend, or whatever. If you pay her, well, she’s got your money now, and that’s all she’s in it for. There’s a very good chance she will speed things along, and make excuses to be somewhere else.
Bar Girl Sob Stories
You’ve paid her, she’s about to leave, suddenly – she seems a little upset about something. You ask her what’s wrong. It turns out she has a minor crisis to deal with, pay for, she only needs an extra few hundred baht to make it go away.
She might be telling the truth, she might also be testing your generosity for future reference, and make a quick buck at the same time.
The Price of Unprotected Sex With Thai Bar Girls in Pattaya
You can get expert diagnosis and treatment of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) for a few thousand baht at most clinics and hospitals in Pattaya. Condoms cost considerably less than the treatment of diseases and misery they help prevent, so it makes pretty makes good sense to use them – don’t you think?.
The Taxi Fare
If you gave a tip she might not ask for a taxi fare, but most will ask for some “small money” for a motorcycle taxi, and maybe even breakfast as well.
Light-fingered Bar Girls
Temptation and the love of money might not be the roots of all evil, but an unattended wallet is often too tempting. Only leave what you are prepared to lose in your wallet, leave your valuables, cash and cards in a safe, or hide them.
- Always, always, wear a condom. You can buy them at any 7-Eleven – pharmacy – or supermarket in Pattaya, but they may not have your brand or size in stock, so better to bring your own.
- Make sure your hotel is guest friendly: otherwise, you might have to pay a joiner fee.
- Make her report to the hotel front desk with her ID: It’s the law, it’s also for your own safety.
- Choose a hotel with a in-room safe box: and leave your valuables in it before you go out.