First time in Pattaya?. Ok, here’s what you need to know about Pattaya girls, ladyboys and nightlife – including Thai bar girls and safe sex in Pattaya, how the Pattaya bar scene works, dos and dont’s and commonsense tips for single men in Pattaya, and which hotels are best for single guys in Pattaya.
Pattaya Girls and Nightlife Scene
The bar scene in Pattaya consists of various types of bars and clubs, including beer bars, go-go bars, short time bars, gentleman’s clubs, and nightclubs and discos. Outside of the bar scene, the sex industry in Pattaya extends to some massage parlors, and soapy massage parlors.
Bar Opening and Closing Times in Pattaya
Bars open at various times throughout the day in Pattaya, and you will find some bar/restaurants open as early as 0600. By mid day or late afternoon the majority of bars and go-go clubs are open, but a few go-go’s and the nightclubs will only open around 6 or 7PM.
Ordering and Paying for Drinks at Bars in Pattaya
You might find it strange at first, but in most cases you don’t have to queue at the bar to order drinks in Pattaya. At beer bar complexes you will probably find yourself seated at the bar anyway, but no matter where you sit, the staff will come and take your order. Along with your drink you will get a bin with your bill inside it. Every time you order a drink a new bill will be placed in your bin.
The usual practice is to pay your total bill only when you leave. When you ask to pay the bill they take away the bin and return your change in a folder. You don’t have to leave a tip, but if you do, just leave it in the folder and hand it back.
What is a Bar Girl?
If a girl works in a bar in Pattaya, she is known as a bar girl, and in Pattaya “bar girl” usually refers to a sex worker. But the truth is not all girls working in bars are sex workers. Some girls choose to work only as a waitress, a cashier, or another position not involving sex work, so technically not all girls working the bars in Pattaya are bar girls.
What do Bar Girls do?
In Pattaya, bar girls are employed to entertain and serve customers. If they wish, they are free to accompany the customer outside the bar after the customer has paid a bar fine. Bar girls also make money for the bar when a customer buys them a drink, which is commonly in Pattaya as a lady drink.
The process of picking up bar girls in Pattaya, including bar fines, long time and short time fees, and what bar girls cost in Pattaya is explained in a post about paying for bar girls in Pattaya.
Do Bar Girls in Pattaya Scam You?
It’s rare, but yes – guys do get scammed by girls in Pattaya, and the victims are usually naive first time visitors to Pattaya. Fortunately it’s not a common scenario, but single guys have taken girls back to their hotel room – the girl has knocked him out with drugs – and then stolen his belongings.
The Best Place to Pick Up Girls in Pattaya
This casual Thai girlfriend hack is especially useful if you want to hook-up with a Thai girl right now – without paying bar fines, or if you want a Thai girlfriend experience or travel companion.
Are there Lady-boys in Pattaya?
Yes, there are many lady-boys in Pattaya. They can be found in beer bars and clubs alongside girls, and can also be found in bars which predominantly employ lady-boys. Some lady-boys are easy to identify – their appearance is more like that of a man in drag. But by contrast – if you set eyes on what you believe is an exceptionally beautiful girl, she could very well be a lady-boy.
Before You Go To Pattaya
Planning and preparing for a trip to Pattaya as a single guy is easy and straight forward. But there are some things you should consider arranging before leaving home.
Best Hotels For Single Guys in Pattaya
If you plan on taking girls back to your hotel room you should make sure your hotel has a guest friendly joiner policy, otherwise the hotel may charge you a joining fee every time you invite a guest back to stay overnight.
The best way to find hotels with a guest friendly joiner policy in Pattaya – is to begin with a list, like this list of popular guest friendly hotels in Pattaya, right here on the blog.
Doing Pattaya Cheap
If there’s some reason you’re finding a trip to Pattaya a little expensive these days, here’s what you can do to make your next vacation in Pattaya cheaper.
As a single male visiting Pattaya there is a good chance you will be having casual sex, in which case you should consider vaccinations for hepatitis A, hepatitis B, and HPV.
Bring Your Own Condoms
You can buy condoms from 7-11 and Family Mart any time of the day in Pattaya, and they are also available at pharmacies and supermarkets. The problem is, condoms are generally smaller in Thailand, so finding your size right when you need it could be a problem. I would definitely bring a good supply of your favorite size and brand with you, at least until you can source a condom size and brand that suits you here in Pattaya.
Before You go out for The First Time in Pattaya
There’s a few commonsense things you can do before venturing out to enjoy Pattaya’s nightlife for the first time, or any time in fact. They are – keep a hotel address card in your wallet – keep a condom in your wallet – take anything you don’t need out your wallet and lock it in the safe. It’s a good idea to have a map app on your phone, and save your hotel as a location so you can easily navigate back.
Do’s and Don’ts for Single Guys in Pattaya
There’s a few things you should and should not do as a single guy in Pattaya, at least not without knowing the outcome or cost.
Don’t Fall in Love With a Pattaya Bar Girl
That’s advice you hear all too often, and it’s actually a very stereotypical view of bar girls. I would more appropriately advise you to be careful about falling in love with a bar girl. Here’s a good article I recommend you read, it’s called Can You Take The Bar Out The Girl.
Do not ring the bell in a bar
Almost all bars in Pattaya have a bell, usually hanging above the counter. It’s not there to get the attention of the staff. When you ring the bell at a bar it means the drinks are on you, and you are buying a drink not just for friends, you are buying for everybody in the bar.
Do not have unprotected sex in Pattaya
You are more likely to pick a sexually transmitted disease in Pattaya than most other places, please read this article about carelessly transmitted diseases and find out why.
Don’t get Pick-pocketed by Lady-boys
On Pattaya’s Soi 6 and Soi 6/1 ladyboys in groups of 3 or 4 crowd round you – at the same as asking if you want sex they have their hands all over you – completely distracting you while one of them picks your wallet out your pocket.
Late night or early morning on Pattaya Beach Road they might employ the same tactics, but they have also been known to be much forceful or even violent.
If you find yourself being mobbed or harassed by lady-boys just keep walking, politely decline their offers, remain calm, and keep your hand on your wallet
Do dress appropriately
Shorts – T-shirts and sandals are the norm all year round. You might want to fetch a pair of jeans or trousers and a shirt to comply with dress code at some of the more up-market restaurants in Pattaya or visits to official/government establishments. And you should always wear your shirt inside restaurants, shops, bars and shopping malls etc.
Do try and choose a hotel with a in-room safe
You have no way of knowing if your overnight guest is light fingered, so an in-room safe is a convenient place to hide your valuables.
Do learn how to identify a lady-boy
There’s a few tell tale signs that a Thai girl is not really a girl. Sometimes you might have to go to the extreme lengths of asking what they have down there, and how long have they had it. Here’s a few tips on spotting lady-boys in Pattaya.
This guide is for single men making their first trip to Pattaya, you should also read these general tips for first timers in Pattaya.
Enjoy your first time in Pattaya, have fun, use commonsense, and don’t forget your condoms.