What Thai bar girls say, and what they mean is not necessarily the same thing. Bargirls are very well practiced in the art of suggestive conversation. They mainly tell the truth, but not always the whole truth. There’s a number of questions bar girls use to extract information about you, some routines used to grab your attention, sometimes there’s a little trickery, and Thai bar girls are sometimes known to tell a white lie or two.
From taking your first touristic footsteps in Pattaya, having your first date with a Thai bar girl, And finally making a serious commitment to a bar girl, there are several quotes, and things bar girls say which you will come to know and understand.
Below, are a few of the more common things Thai bar girls say to foreign men, and the real (sometimes) meaning of what they say. I don’t intend to stereotype Thai bar girls, so you should read this post in the same lighthearted manner it was written. you may certainly find it helpful when negotiating with bar girls, but this is about what some bar girls say sometimes, it’s not about what all bar girls say all of the time.
What Thai Bar Girls Say and What They Mean
“Hey sexy man“. Meaning: You. Or if a multitude of possible male punters are walking past, it is a sweeping remark aimed at anyone curious enough to wonder if they really are a sexy man.
“Hey sexy man, have lady for you“. Meaning: Hey you, you know you want it, come and get it here.
“Can I sit with you“. Meaning: Can I interest you in sleeping with me.
“Do you like Thai food“. Meaning: I’m hungry, will you take me to eat.
“Is this your first time in Thailand“. Meaning: How green are you.
“I only in Pattaya 1 week“. Meaning: I just arrived back in Pattaya last week.
“Do you want another drink“. Meaning: Will you buy me a drink.
“This is my friend“. Meaning: Will you buy my friend a drink.
“Which hotel are you staying at“. Meaning: How rich are you.
“Where are you going“. Meaning: can I come with you.
“Do you speak Thai“. Meaning: can I speak about you with my friend.
“I like you“. Meaning: Do you like me.
“How long have you been in Thailand“. Meaning: do you have a Thai wife or girlfriend.
“Do you want to see me tonight“. Meaning: Should I go with another man tonight.
“I’m just texting my friend“. Meaning: I’m arranging to meet my next customer.
“Best you come to Thailand next month“. Meaning: her other boyfriend is here right now, and he goes home next month.
“I will stay at home in my village until you return to Thailand“. Meaning: I will carry on working the bar, but what you don’t know won’t hurt you.
“Up to you“. Meaning: Make me an offer I can’t refuse.