What Thai bar girls say, and what they mean is not necessarily the same thing. Bar girls don’t always tell the whole truth, and quite often they tell anything but the truth.
From taking your first touristic footsteps in Pattaya, having your first date with a Thai bar girl, And finally making a serious commitment to a bar girl, there are several quotes, and things bar girls say which you will come to know and understand.
Below, are a few of the more common things Thai bar girls say to foreign men, and the real (sometimes) meaning of what they say. I don’t intend to stereotype Thai bar girls, so you should read this post in the same lighthearted manner it was written.
You will certainly find much of it is true when you start dealing with bar girls yourself, but this is about what ‘some’ bar girls say sometimes, it’s not about what all bar girls say all of the time.
What Thai Bar Girls Say and What They Mean
“I only in Pattaya 1 week“. Meaning: I just arrived back in Pattaya last week after spending a week on Koh Samui with a customer.
“This is my first day working bar“. Meaning: This is my first day working in this bar. Or, I just split up with my boyfriend, this is my first day back working the bar.
“Can I sit with you“. Meaning: Will you buy me a drink. And, can I interest you in sleeping with me.
“Do you want another drink“. Meaning: Will you buy me another drink.
“This is my friend“. Meaning: Will you buy my friend a drink.
“Is this your first time in Thailand“. Meaning: How green are you.
“How long have you been in Thailand“. Meaning: How green are you. Or, do you have a Thai wife or girlfriend.
“Which hotel are you staying at“. Meaning: How rich are you.
“Where are you going“. Meaning: can I come with you.
“Up to you“. Meaning: Make me an offer I can’t refuse.
“Do you want to see me tonight“. Meaning: Should I go with another man tonight.
“Can we go to the market“. Meaning: Will you buy me something.
“I’m just texting my friend“. Meaning: I’m arranging to meet my next customer.
“I must go see my friend for, whatever, I not be long.“. Meaning: I have a short time customer.
“I borrowed money from my friend, please can you help me pay her back“. Meaning: I have to pay my gambling debt.
“Best you come to Thailand next month“. Meaning: One of my other boyfriends is here right now, and he goes home next month.
“Sorry, my phone had no battery“. Meaning: I was busy with a customer.
“My father’s buffalo is sick.“. Meaning: Please send a small amount of money for, whatever.
“My family house needs new roof.“. Meaning: Please send a large amount of money.
“My family house very old now, always problem.“. Meaning: Will you buy my family a new house.
“My father sick, need to hire help to work the land“. Meaning: Please send more money every month.
“This is my brother.“. Meaning: This is my husband.